Kathzoofus

“…but she never wanted to be in a relationship again. Because relationships were the worst. So many obligations. So many compromises. So many arguments. Someone always got destroyed in the end. Sometimes everyone got destroyed in the end.”  —  Jami Attenberg, The Middlesteins

You aren't approachable if you don't reach out to others. It's a two way street. Why don't you go first?

“I'm taking this time to create my day and I'm infecting the quantum field. Now if (it) is in fact the observer's watching me the whole time that I'm doing this and there is a spiritual aspect to myself, then show me a sign today that you paid attention to any one of these things that I created, and bring them in a way that I won't expect, so I'm as surprised at my ability to be able to experience these things. And make it so that I have no doubt that it's come from you,' and so I live my life, in a sense, all day long thinking about being a genius or thinking about being the glory and the power of God or thinking about being unconditional love.”   -Joe Dispenza, What The Bleep

"When you plant lettuce and i t does not grow well , you don't blame the let t uce. You l ook for reasons it is not do i ng we l l. It may need fertilizer, or more water , or l ess sun.   You never blame the l ettuce.  Yet , if we ha v e prob l ems with our friends or fam i ly (or s t udents or co - workers), w e blame  the other person . But, if we know how t o take ca r e of them, they will grow we ll , li ke the lettuce.  B l aming has no pos iti ve effect at all , nor does trying to persuade using reason and argument . I f you understand, and you show that you understand, the si t ua t ion w i l l cha n ge ." - Thich Nhat Hanh