Kathzoofus

"Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.” -- William James

"When you overthink at the wrong moment, you cut yourself off from the wisdom of your emotions, which are much better at assessing actual preferences. You lose the ability to know what you really want. And then you choose the worst strawberry jam." Johan Lehrer - author of How We Decide.

"The race is long. It is better to drive within oneself and finish the race behind the others than it is to drive too hard and crash." The Art of Racing in the Rain by Garth Stein

“It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it.” ~Lena Horne

Don’t let yesterday use up too much of today. ~Cherokee Proverb

Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth. ~Rumi

All that we are is the result of what we have thought. The mind is everything. What we think, we become. - Maharishi Mahesh Yogi

Being normal is not necessarily a virtue – it rather denotes a lack of courage. ~Stockard Channing as Aunt Francis in Practical Magic

I have learned that self-esteem is just that: SELF-esteem. Not wife-esteem or lover-esteem or even sponsor-esteem. It has to come from ME, not from others opinions of me. ~Al-Anon

The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitudes. - William James

If you can’t stand solitude, maybe you bore others too. ~Bob Gordon

“ Run your fingers through my soul . For once, just once, feel exactly what I feel, believe what I believe, perceive as I perceive, look, experience, examine, and for once; just once, understand.”

"To wish you were someone else is to waste the person you are." -Unknown

"Success is never final and failure never fatal. It's courage that counts." - George F. Tilton

"You are the person who has to decide. Whether you'll do it or toss it aside; you are the person who makes up your mind. Whether you'll lead or will linger behind. Whether you'll try for the goal that's afar. Or just be contented to stay where you are." - Edgar A. Guest .

"Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition." - Timothy Leary

"If you don't do what's best for your body, you're the one who comes up on the short end." -Julius Erving

"The only people to get even with are those who have helped you." -Anonymous

"Problems are a sign of life." Norman Vincent Peale

“ You must constantly ask yourself these questions: Who am I around? What are they doing to me? What have they got me reading? What have they got me saying? Where do they have me going? What do they have me thinking? And most important, what do they have me becoming? Then ask yourself the big question: Is that okay? Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.” - Jim Rohn